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  • John Beech I don't doubt that's Anita had been influential, but I dislike her business plan, and I strongly dislike the hateful things she has said via FemFreq. She could do a much better job at reviewing games as well rather than spreading hate towards game deve...See More
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    • Chelsea Lee What hateful things?
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    • The Social Justice Warrior please #killyourself and bring other men along with you #killallmen #fightpatriarchy how dare you trash #anita you #shitlord #virgin pediphucker worm
    • John Beech Hateful:
      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533445611543363585


      Inflammatory:
      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533869811726442497 - GameGame is a consumer revolt for ethics in journalism, not an abuse campaign against feminists.

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/525793436025118721 - mass shootings is a very sensitive issue, to bluntly claim that its a result of toxic masculinity seems a bit bold. My impression is that its caused by depression, and providing support male depression - presumably the cause of suicide, the biggest killer of males under the age of 35, is probably a more constructive way to help.

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/523620542658527233 - I'm sure she's been criticized for being a professional victim because of the amount of money she is making via donations, which she advertises by sharing her daily harassment with the world, and not, say, reporting and ignoring it. I mean to say, it seems she directly profits from publicizing her own harassment. I don't see how this is sexist, I would use the same term for any person who spins the story about their own harassment experiences online for net monetary gain.

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/522548705556434944 - agreed, and they do. Accounts get blocked, suspending, investigations are launched. Is she saying that online threats against men are not real? Is she suggesting that women should get preferential treatment when reporting online threats?

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/522218360763731968 - from her perspective, yes, but from people who strongly advocate #gamegate, no, not true. Again, inflammatory and off-topic, this regular narrative probably does attract haters and trolls to her account.

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/521721747154804736 - I feel bad that she cannot speak out openly in public because of threats being made.

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/520095334345609216 - I disagree, at its root it is a consumer revolt for ethics in journalism

      https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/515258684641783809 - pushing the "women are threatened online" agenda, rather then the "people, male and female, are threatened online". I don't mind these article references, but they are not balanced.

      In review, it looks like she has had a very difficult 6 months since September, having to deal with a growing number of threats, and specific death threats.

      I'll retract, she hasn't said anything particularly hateful, bar that first tweet, but I'm not very clear on what she wants to achieve by creating strawman arguments from video games, and then accusing game developers of promoting sexism. I don't think this was the right approach, and now she's on a career path promoting the effect that harrasment online has had for her. I'm aware that people are nasty, and that online threats to men and women are a very bad thing, but I don't agree that the cause of abuse is sexist or misogynist.
      “There’s no such thing as sexism against men. That's because sexism is prejudice + power....
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    • John Beech The Social Justice Warrior - your account seems to be somewhere between satire and hate, and I feel the need to refer you to Poe's law to have a critical think about what you're doing: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe%27s_law
      Poe's law, named after its author Nathan Poe,[1] is a literary adage which stipulates that, without a clear indicator of an author's intention, it is often impossible to tell the difference between an expression of sincere extremism and a parody of such extremism.[2] Someone will likely mistake the…
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    • The Social Justice Warrior when #womyn speak, you #CISscum #malepigs need to #listen- you have nothing to #offer at all and all men are genetically #inferior!!!! peos law? looks like another #patriarchical #conspiracy to me- you #losers just have #vaginaenvy - seriously th0, #killallmen #destroypatriarchy
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    • Raymon Levi White Adding to the above, she has lied time and time again, claiming that she's been gaming her whole life, it even says in the piece about her linked, this is not true. She only done half the videos promised, despite being over 2 years late, when called out upon, she blocks people, even her backers:

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UoucuL1jazI
      ** SOURCES #GamerGate The Movie RED...
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    • Chelsea Lee None of what you linked to is hateful in any way.
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    • Dawn Mckenna What Chelsea said, at no point has she said anything hateful, critiquing over used tropes and harmful standards is not hateful, it's something everyone needs to do.
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    • John Beech Chelsea, Dawn, I'm pretty sure Anita's tweet that I linked is hateful, to quote: "There’s no such thing as sexism against men. That's because sexism is prejudice + power. Men are the dominant gender with power in society."

      The message is polarized, i
      t perpetuates the idea that men are dominant in all areas of society. It directly suggests that men cannot be the target of sexism, which is blatantly not true. There are innumerable cases of harassment against men by women based on their gender. The message is hateful because it shows an extreme dislike towards all men, regardless of their position or power in society.

      If you're interested, have a read of this reddit on the subject:
      http://www.reddit.com/.../do_you_agree_or_disagree_with.../
      12 points and 25 comments so far on reddit
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    • Raymon Levi White John Beech already said he retracts the statement about her tweets being particularly hateful except for the first tweet. I don't think her tweets about tropes, gaming, gamergate are hateful, however, I would agree that the first tweet is, for the reasons mentioned by John above.
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    • John Beech Also of interest, linked from the bottom of the reddit: https://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/.../feminism.../
      Although it has long since become a...
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    • Dawn Mckenna John,

      You might be sure, but you're actually wrong.


      There is no such thing as sexism against men, because in gender terms men are the dominant gender. This doesn't mean that men's lives can't suck at times, it simply means that there is no pervasive discrimination against them just for being men. A man can be discriminated against because of being working class or lower, being not heterosexual, a lack of able bodiedness, having a mental illness, being trans, being a person of color, but never because he's a man.

      Telling the truth is not hating on men, it's telling the truth. Men are simply not subject to that particular social force because society is prejudiced against women as a gender, not men as a gender.
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    • Raymon Levi White Dawn,

      "A man can be discriminated against because of ..., but never because he's a man."


      That's not quite true. From personal experience, for a crime, men are more likely to be convicted, incarcerated and receive a harsher sentence than women. So much that street gangs have started to use women to commit crimes since they know the women will get off easy.

      There exists some injustice against men over custody of a child. This is a bit more wobbly since it can be argued that the women could better take care of the child? There are many factors here... but there definitely exist discrimination against men.

      Men can also be victims of domestic abuse. However, they are reluctant to get help, they are expected to "man up", and would get laughed at by people if they said a "girl was beating him up". Even if they do call the police for help, this is what happens:
      "When a woman called, the man was arrested in 15.2% of cases; when a man called, the woman was arrested in 0% of cases. In fact, in 12.1% of cases when the man called, the man himself was arrested."
      Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/.../Domestic_violence_against_men...

      I have a friend (male) who suffered at the hands of his partner (female). I have witnessed first hand what discrimination against males look like.

      There are many more examples.

      Discrimination against men simply for being men can and do happen.
      Domestic violence against men deals with...
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    • Dawn Mckenna Raymon,

      It is true that men are NOT discriminated against for being men.


      The difference in crime results aren't caused by gender, they result from a number of factors.

      1. Men tend to aggravate their crimes via violence. As a result men receive longer sentences. Two people in court for theft? Chances are the theft charge the woman faces is some form of fraud, the dude is more likely to have robbed someone with violence.

      The latter tends to carry a longer sentence. In short, there's a reason why men commit 90% of homicides and woman commit only 10% of them.

      2. Benevolent sexism, where women do avoid incarceration, it's inevitably because they're the chief or only custodian of young children who would be harmed if she was incarcerated. This is because women are often lumped with all or most of the childcare duties in any relationship, a factor that carries a number of negative results.

      Ergo, straighten out the notion that women should be solely responsible for kids and maybe things would change.

      3. Women are more likely to be poor and to commit crimes due to poverty. Ergo, a judge is going to be more sympathetic to the mother who steals to feed her kids, than the guy who steals the same thing for his own benefit.

      Ergo, address gender based poverty, and things change.

      Child Custody?

      I did mention this in my prior comment:

      The courts are NOT biased against men. Men only ask for custody a mere 4 percent of the time. That's why women get custody most of the time, when men ask for arbitration, they receive custody between 50 and 70 percent of the time. To the point where men raping their daughters have been awarded custody of their victims.

      Most custody is decided outside of court between the couple though, the reason women overwhelmingly receive custody in that case is because:

      1. The socialised assumption that childcare is women's work and thus is beneath men. Men have created that, they might want to address it.

      2. Because the woman is the one whose income is typically less, ergo, she's often the one who gives up work in order to perform childcare duties. Men might want to push for equal pay so who gets custody doesn't come down to whose income is least.

      Domestic violence?

      That's not the results of discrimination against men. That's the results of toxic masculinity notions that are used as an excuse to devalue women. Misogyny backfiring on men is not men being oppressed for being men.

      It is men who have created the regressive notions of masculinity, it is men who should be dismantling them. It is men who have deemed women weak and lesser. The notion of men as hyperviolent is used to control women, to justify male violence towards women, it is in short rooted in misogyny, that it backfires on men when they get hurt is unintended.

      None of what you have brought up is discrimination against men, it is either the side effects of discrimination against women, a form of benevolent sexism, issues you haven't done your research on, or regressive notions of masculinity created as a result of oppressing women. That doesn't mean that men aren't hurt by these things, it just means that things that harm men are NOT the result of any organised discrimination against men in gender terms, they're instead the side effect of organised discrimination against women.
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    • Raymon Levi White Dawn, I think you've proven my point
      Anyway, we can agree to disagree. I'm off to sleep. Night!
    • Quaisha A Thornton Sexism goes BOTH ways, and for all genders. When feminist women spew their hate of all men, that's sexism because they hate a man for being a man. You can look up all the references you want but sexism hurts all genders even if only one side seems to "...See More
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    • John Beech Dawn, I'm not sure. I still disagree with your statements: "There is no such thing as sexism against men, because in gender terms men are the dominant gender. ", and "... society is prejudiced against women as a gender, not men as a gender.".

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      y is big and complex; where you live and where I live may be very different - i.e. the societies we live in may treat men and women in completely different ways. It is well worth pointing out prejudice when and where we see it, but I cannot agree with your statements as they are too general.

      I agree that instances of discrimination can be highlighted, between class, and culture, and strength, but such instances can never prove the general statement. I find it hard to agree to any kind of general statement that involves gender, because of the natural biases associated.

      To bring this back to Anita's tweets - she provides a very female sided commentary, which is to be expected from a feminist outlet, but the issues she tries to highlight (abuse, harassment online, characterisation of game characters) are not unique to women, and so she ends up promoting an inequality which seems unrelated to the goals of feminism.
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    • Dawn Mckenna What is it with some men and REFUSING to see that something can suck WITHOUT being actual oppression?

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    • John Beech I think people are fine the way they are. In the society I grew up in (England, UK), based on my friends and peers that I went to school with, that men and women are free to choose their own paths in life, look and dress how they want, play what they want to play, make the games they want to make, and work where they want to work.
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    • Quaisha A Thornton @dawn OK, define a black person hating another black person because they are black? Even when you find a definition, there's self hating because they are hating a reflection of themselves. And please don't tell me this situation doesn't exist. I see it everyday and live through it with others and their self-hating.

      It's all the same thing really. When you hate a person whose done nothing to you personally just because they represent a race, a gender, some physical or personality trait, you hate yourself and you spread that hatred. Hatred does nothing but collapse positive evolution.
    • Dawn Mckenna John, I'm in England as well, if you believe that, it's because you're a guy and have never had to deal with the issues that gender brings up. From early on, they told me that girls didn't do construction, that was for boys.

      Quaisha,

      Depending on context, either colorism, or internalised racism. Neither of which supports your claim that anything goes both ways.

      Individual prejudice/internalised isms you suffer are very different to organised isms being inflicted on a minority by a privileged group.
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  • Quaisha A Thornton I do not feel Anita has made a difference in the gaming industry and therefore I also don't feel she deserves this reward. I have been a video gamer since I was the age of 4 and continue to play games and talk about, review and critique games. I have a...See More
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  • Molly Scavuzzo-Duggan YES! This is incredible, and well-deserved!!!'
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  • Katherine Owen Congratulations on more well-deserved recognition for your important work. Thank you for everything - from a 33 year old gamer who loved the hobby but grew up wishing there were more diverse female character depictions in video games.
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  • Melissa Lum Congratulations on the recognition for all your hard work.
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  • Jennifer Killpack-Knutsen . . . and millions of MRA heads explode . . .
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  • Lindsey Weedston That is going to make so many dudebros so mad, it's glorious.
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  • Nate Severance This world is better with you in it.
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  • Gareth Buckle Well deserved - I can't wait for the fruits of your work finally being realised in the games to come, we're all going to have richer gaming experiences thanks to you and hopefully it will also help to change the general climate out there in the real world too
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  • Roy Fuentes Congratulations on beating the 73% of people who didn't think you deserved to be on the list and getting on the list anyways! Excellent way of beating the system
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  • Sharon Sekhon I love you, lady. Thanks for fighting for all of us.
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  • Eric Benjamin Mackey That's awesome. Way to go.
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  • Barbara Vantslot well deserved for a very smart woman!
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  • Emily Emile Well-earned.
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  • Sarah Rees AMAZING! Congrats!
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  • Marie Poling While your impotent haters stew in their dark basements, you just keep on rocking it.
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  • David Theberge *Drinking a mug filled with MRA tears*
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  • Warren Jansen Van Rensburg Anita Deserved it I'm glad shes getting respect out of all this hate.
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  • Shawn W-Conner Congratulations Anita. Your voice was needed and we are thankful!
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  • Anna Odhner You are awesome! Thanx for adding to my life.
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  • Anthony Paxton Not only does Ms. Sarkeesian receive a much-deserved accolade, but Mr. Wheaton eloquently shows what the UN "He For She" campaign is meant to look like. Well played to both of you.
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  • Deneb Pirrone That's awesome! Congrats
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  • Michael Oppenheimer Double the coolness
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  • Samuel Wright You are BRILLIANT! Rock on!!!
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  • Holly Kearl Amazing!!! Congrats
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  • Mahault Albarracin Well done, and so deserved!
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  • Hilary Joyner This is amazing!! Congrats! You deserve this.
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  • Martin Xavi Macias fuck yes!!!!
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  • Chelsea Lee Congratulations, Anita!
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  • Vee Sable Congratulations! Well deserved!
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  • Ben Romberg Fantastic! Brilliant work mate.
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  • Fredrik Sahlsten Glimmevi You are awesome, and it's not just women thinking that.
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  • Kyra Reed WEe deserved!
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  • Chris Adams Great to see her on this!
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  • Chris Worley Congratulations!!
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  • Lucius Messerer Wonderful and well-deserved! Keep up the awesome work!
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  • Matthew Sochocki I seriously can't like this enough times.
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